One enlightened prison governor says he tries to imagine what it would be like if his son or daughter was an inmate of his prison. What would he want for them?
Food, warmth, a clean cell. The basic comforts in life to allow them to continue to grow. Could they also be allowed, in the midst of all the misery that prison certainly affords, a few moments of joy? The opportunity to be part of something which could change their behaviours far more than being locked into a cell 23 hours out of 24?
This is the gist (less eloquently expressed) that Peter Dawson, the governor of HMP Highdown at Sutton in Surrey, (and MVMF Patron), gave in his introduction to one of the most extraordinary concerts I have had the privilege to experience.
The concert was the culmination of a week long workshop, which itself was the culmination of 18 months preparation, showcasing the moment of joy that is possible when seven inmates of Highdown and five disabled students from the awesome Orpheus Centre founded by musician and songwriter, Richard Stilgoe, spent a week together in prison.
Why the pairing? Because the two groups have more in common than you would at first glance imagine. (Which was the first reminder to me of many during the concert that we should always take a second glance). All 12 men in what they disarmingly called the ‘company’ loved music. Style varied from vibretto to rap to recitative. All wanted to experience something different. All have had constraints placed upon them – the inmates by Her Majesty; the students by the various disabilities with which they live on a daily basis. All are ‘locked in’ in one way or another.
The company had spent a week together at the prison in a collaboration ‘Birdsongs2’ funded by the MVMF – which could equally have been titled ‘We send you this song’. The aim of the week was for the team to write, perform and record a series of songs written by those they loved but, in the case of the prisoners, were no longer with.
So came a ballad for a three year old daughter called ‘It’s about survival’; a love poem to a fiancée called ‘We’ll be together’; a rap to a best friend ‘This is what your friendship means to me’. The list went on. Songs about shared experiences (all have to share rooms and so came the song ‘Snoring’!), and about the workshop experience itself (‘It’s not what I expected’, ‘Smiles and frowns’, and ‘Brand new eyes’). The anthems of the day were ‘I send you this song’ and ‘Invisible Lives’, the latter of which had the audience (comprised of an eclectic mix of Surrey great & good, inmates, their parents, prison staff and potential funders) whooping, clapping and cheering in a standing ovation.
But for me, the magic happened around the stage. Because sadly so many people who helped make this event possible couldn’t be there, here’s a taster of what I saw:
The cellmate of one of the performers sitting behind me, singing under his breath along with his mate on stage – as if a proud parent at a nativity willing their child on.
The camaraderie when someone had done their ‘bit’: high fives, claps on the back, grins of support whether to someone in a wheelchair or prison garb.
The tale I had been told the night before, after the dress rehearsal, when the inmates had expressed their nerves and the Orpheus students reassured them (“we’ve played at the Royal Albert Hall – this will be a synch!”).
The students going home that night in their minibus worrying about leaving their new friends alone in their cells with their nervous anticipation of the day ahead.
The prison officer who had helped to arrange the week, who took part in the group songs and even did a solo ‘rap’ to the delight of those in her charge.
The mother of the lad in Highdown awaiting trial (with the three year old at home), who confessed to me how nervous she had been attending, not knowing whether the mother of ‘one of them’ would be accepted. What a joy for me to be able to genuinely be able to say to her “You must be so proud”.
All of this and the music which I am still humming now, two days later, that you would pay to hear again and again. Of course! Richard Stilgoe, after all, was the brains behind the programme and in his inimitable way very much hands on, leading the sessions through the week and the final concert. And at the end, awards for all in the form of CDs and certificates, clutched proudly by all as they left the room, each to their respective ‘home’.
Overall, it was one of the most powerful things I have ever witnessed. I wanted to take every prison minister, home office advisor, fundraiser, fund giver, every doubter that positivity and support can and does change lives more effectively than stringent punishment, and sit them there for that hour.
For now, I am left scheming how to make sure this isn’t the last group of young offenders in prison who get an opportunity to share in the unique, life-changing brand of magic that only Orpheus students can provide.
If you think you can help us do this, get in touch. And to those who came to the Carols by Candlelight in December last year, know that this is what you’ve paid for. And that you did good. I was thanked profusely by the inmates so many times after the event, so now I pass this onto you who made it happen. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Kate Varah, MVMF Co-Founder and Trustee